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Our men please us, so ladies we can please them…

So everything is going peachy in your relationship. The two of you are having fun and just enjoying each other’s company. You get a long great with each other’s families, plan and go on trips and getaways together, and all and all you guys mesh well together and both know in your hearts that you want to be with each other forever as one.

But then things go a little sour. As a woman you get confused and don’t know what went wrong or what you did. You panic and start going to your girls for advice. Sometimes as women it’s not what we did, but we didn’t do. We can become so wrapped and enjoy being pleased and treated like the queens that we are and we may fail to do the same for our king. So when we see that our king is becoming distant, we get angry, mad, and hurt instead of stepping up and say, “Hey babe what’s wrong? Is there something that I can do? or is there something that I am not doing?” Just those words will open up that line of communication to bring things back to life.

So ladies when we meet the man of our dreams, our future husband, we must be mindful at all times that relationships do require a bit of compromise and that we should want to also give and not take, take, take all the time. Relationships are a 100-100 deal, both have to give their all for it to work or you have nothing at all. If one if giving 100 and the other is giving 70 or 80, the passion will dwindle out until the other realizes that need to give up that extra 30 to 20 for things to last and not end up in a break up or divorce.

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Naomi K. Bonman is the founder of SophisticatedRelations.com and an alumni of Clark Atlanta University where she received her Bachelors of Arts in Journalism. She also holds a Masters in Public Administration and has been in the Journalism field for a total of 10 years. In addition to Journalism, Naomi is also a entertainment and lifestyle publicist who resides in Southern California, right in between San Diego and Los Angeles. In her spare time she loves to travel, spend time with loved ones, and enjoys outdoor activities.

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